Tom Boonen reveals why he needed therapy after cycling: "I had become someone I’m not—or someone I didn’t want to be”
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Tom Boonen is one of the best professional riders to have ever stepped foot in the peloton, but it has not come without a cost. At age 46 the Belgian legend is in therapy after having spent his life in the cycling bubble, a 'world that isn't real' according to his own words.
Boonen is a rider that needs little introduction, having marked generations within the sport. He turned pro in 2002 with the former US Postal Service team next to Lance Armstrong, and moved on to the Quick-Step team the following years, where he spent his entire career - all the way until 2017.
On the way he has won a world title in 2005; four editions of Paris-Roubaix; three editions of the Tour of Flanders; six Tour de France stage wins and a green jersey over his years.
The Mol native effectively took over 100 pro wins during his years as a professional, making him not only one of the best out of the 2000's and 2010's, but also an historical figure for cycling and one of the riders with the most amount of monument wins throughout his career.
Tom Boonen and his long-time rival Fabian Cancellara at Paris-Roubaix
Boonen lived in a world that wasn't real
When that finished at the 2017 Paris-Roubaix, Boonen has had to adapt to a new life, without the luxuries of being taken care of by a full team all year long. It was then that he realized a truly new phase of his life would begin. "For sixteen or seventeen years, I lived in a world that wasn't real," he said on 'Happy Hour', a show on VTM.
"You spend sixteen or seventeen years of your life in a world that isn't real—a world to which you dedicate everything, for which you do everything. But you have to recover from that. I needed some time to heal," Boonen said, revealing that he has had to go into therapy to deal with the changes in his life that have taken place since.
He also believes that the sport turned him into a different person. "I think that, because of cycling, I had become someone I’m not—or someone I didn’t want to be. I’m very happy with where I’ve ended up in my life now, but [therapy] did me a world of good".
The extremes of a professional cyclist life took a toll on Boonen
From 2002 to 2017 Boonen would experience many wins, but also many crashes, injuries and losses - including that of Wouter Weilandt, a teammate of many years at Quick-Step.
Even his final years as a pro were filled with extremes. In October 2015 he crashed at the Abu Dhabi Tour and fractured his skull. In April of 2016 he came within inches of a record-breaking fifth Paris-Roubaix win; and later that year he would finish on the podium of his final World Championships - 11 years after he had first won it, and with retirement only months ahead.
"Traumatic isn't the right word, but it’s such an extreme life of highs and lows... you’re pulled out of the real world and thrust into this cycling bubble, where everything is done for you and you become a hero to so many people..."
Boonen advocated for therapy in the show, highlighting how important it has been in his development as a person, as of late. "These are sessions lasting an hour or sometimes two; you go back fifteen, twenty, or thirty times, and eventually, you see results".
"The process is different for everyone, of course. But I would recommend it to anyone—if you’ve been through something in your life, or whatever the case may be. It really helps. It allowed me to process everything I hadn't been able to digest on my own."
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