"It might not seem that way, because I can be tough and straightforward. Aside from Wout and the kids, I almost never hug people, but that’s precisely because I’ve learned to shield my emotions over the years. But don’t get me wrong: we have a wonderful life - one I never would have dared to dream of as a teenager," she adds.
Remember all those crashes
Even though Van Aert has claimed many high-profile victories throughout his career - including three cyclocross world titles - what is often remembered more in relation to his name are the many serious crashes. And that's also something which sticks with De Bie.
"It's not always easy to deal with. When Wout crashed in Dwars door Vlaanderen in 2024 and again five months later in the Vuelta, that was the hardest period of his career for me. It was one crash too many. He had a real shot at the green jersey, so he went from a high point to a complete standstill all of a sudden. Physically, he couldn’t do anything for a while, so he was kind of like a third child in the house."
Wout Van Aert has to abandon the 2024 Vuelta a Espana with a knee injury
The crash which almost ended Van Aert's career before it even begun
There’s one moment his wife will never forget either: the crash during the time trial in Pau in 2019, when Van Aert sliced his leg open on a crowd barrier.
"I wanted to go straight to Wout, but I couldn’t. Fortunately, two or three days later, I was allowed to ride along from the local hospital to AZ Herentals. There, Dr. Toon Claes saw that my health had also suffered from the shock, so he said, 'We’re going to keep you here for a while.' I did indeed stay overnight."
"I realise now that that fall in Pau was traumatic, because I only remember bits and pieces of it. The same goes for the death of my grandmother - Dad’s mom - in 2014. Our lives seem to be moving at such a fast pace that I can’t really take the time to reflect on many things," said De Bie.
"What really hit me hard recently was the death of Robert Gesink’s wife (a former Dutch cyclist, ed.) last year. Seeing how that always-smiling Daisy fell ill and passed away in just a few months taught me to enjoy life more - for example, moments with Georges and Jérôme - even if, with all their energy, I sometimes feel like I could tear my hair out," she concludes.